每一個歷程,無論過程中是好是壞,我相信都有它的意義、價值,以及要告訴我們的哲理
「我就像王寶釧,苦守含窯18年」
從女兒生下3歲的孫女後離家、服刑、回家、再服刑的不斷流轉中照顧孫女,終於18年後等到女兒願意改變。孫女已經成年並遠嫁,工作穩定,生了小孩,依輩分而論,鈞爸已經是曾祖父了。
鈞爸轉變心態後,曾經多次到監獄探望女兒也參與懇親活動。鈞爸回憶當時情景說:「去那邊(監獄)是要有勇氣的,可是我已經不一樣,我想要讓小鈞知道我依然愛她,所以當時我有擁抱她。」「女兒不是我的,是上帝給我的責任,讓我好好照顧她,我現在就是陪她,不要回天堂時繳白卷。」
鈞爸說起家庭,除了對女兒這次出監後努力找工作、復歸社會的肯定外,也非常感念鈞媽對家庭的不離不棄。當時的鈞媽似乎很快就接受女兒的狀況,一肩扛起照顧孫女的責任,成為家庭穩定的重要支柱。家庭系統在小鈞犯行、離家後歷經調適,形成新的動力,並持續在彼此生命中扮演重要角色,雙方都在多年後看見自己的生命成長,真的要歸功於某一些角色建立起新的依附關係。
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